The Story of the Brave Priest & Martyr Behind Valentine’s Day: Uncovering the Mysterious Legend

Many of us associate February 14 solely with love and romance, but it is also a day that honors the rich history and devoted life of Saint Valentine. Despite the festivities surrounding this celebration, much of Saint Valentine’s life remains a mystery.

According to tradition, Saint Valentine was a third-century Catholic priest born in Terni, a small town in Umbria, but lived under the reign of Emperor Claudius II in Italy for most of his life.

Emperor Claudius struggled to recruit men into his military and believed their reluctance stemmed from strong attachments to their wives and children. In response, he banned all marriages and engagements for the time being. 

Recognizing this injustice, Valentine defied the emperor’s orders and celebrated marriages in secret. He strongly believed in the beauty and sacredness of marriage and sought to uphold its significance as a Catholic sacrament. Eventually, Valentine’s defiance was discovered, resulting in his arrest and eventual execution in 270 A.D. It is believed that before his death, he left a heartfelt farewell note, signed with the now-famous words, “From Your Valentine.”  

Each year, Saint Valentine’s hometown of Terni showers the community with decorations and festivities.

Community vendors craft outdoor markets into a heart shape that can be seen from above. Many celebrate this feast with wine, cheese, and sweets. Concerts, dancing, and chocolate tastings are just a few of the activities locals enjoy in what has come to be known as the “Love City." 

The remains of what is believed to be Saint Valentine’s skull are displayed in Rome in the Basilica di Santa Maria.

 The true origins of Valentine’s story remain unclear, as historical accounts have intertwined his story with those of two other martyred saints who share his name. However, what is known about the patron of love is widely accepted and held to be true in many cases.